This exercise of digging through your thoughts, done often enough, tends to reveal a common thread in such moments: disbelief. At the heart of what you’re feeling is often a quiet sense that all the things you're supposed to get done... won’t get done.
You’d be wise to heed that signal.
Of course you're not going to shoot a neck-turning YouTube video, clean all the rooms in the house, and complete the IFMA executive onboarding pack before 6 p.m. (when the time already reads 3:47 p.m.)
But there’s something to point out.
The disbelief is fed by a confusion where "things that are to get done" are tangled up with "things that must get done", and the tangle creates and fuels a sense of pressure/overwhelm.
Once this is seen, the remedy becomes simple: distill clarity by filtering out what must get done from all else that calls to be done.[1]
What this does is: It starts you on your way to gaining a handle on a manageable number of things truly in need of attention.
What qualifies as "must get done" tends to be a subjective thing, so you'd be hard-pressed to find an all encompassing definition. But one signal stands out: these are the items that repeatedly tug at your attention, "disturbing" that neglect might usher in catastrophe (and if not catastrophe, at the very least, notable disatisfaction).
Take these steps to promote continuity:
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Open your In-basket. Also open your "Today's Priorities" list.
- In your In-basket, without discrimination, list out the contents in mind. If there is a kind of resistance against listing, adopt a conversational style. You might begin with "What is the issue?" or "What is happening?"
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For your "Today's Priorities" list, review your growing In-basket list and populate three sections:
- Section A: "Now Now" or "Today Today". Limit this section to 1 item—the thing that MUST get done.
- Section B: "Now" or "Today". Limit this section to 5 items. These must be done today but can wait until after Section A is complete.
- Section C: "Today-ish". Limit this section to 21 items. Items you to get to after tasks in section A and section B are complete.
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Open your timing tool, and trigger a timer.
- The timer helps implement the 90–30 rule: 90 minutes of focus followed by 30 minutes of break.
- ATracker (iOS, Android, Web, Mac, Windows) is a good fit because of its task-based time-tracking.
- Only populate ATracker with 5–10 high-level focus tasks ("tasks disturbing me"), two break types (30-min and 90-min), and one "Facilities" task for essential, non-focus activities like cooking, errands, or showering.
- Protect your focus time block.
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- As time unfolds during your focus block, interruptions will arise. Don’t engage with them—just note them down in your In-basket, and return attention to focus item.
Of course, this method has its drawbacks. It can sometimes feel like an imposition on the natural flow of things. It might even become fodder for the very rumination it seeks to dissolve—looping you back into deliberation instead of getting you to act. But the point isn’t to perfect the process.
The point is to interrupt chaos. The point is to give yourself structure that promotes intentionality. The point is continuity—to move from being tangled in everything to being engaged with at least one thing that matters.
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